Hmm.

I have so much going on that I can’t even take time out to arrange my thoughts.

Deep breaths.

So I’m constantly conflicted these days. What is ethical, what is moral, what is right and what is wrong? – these questions are plaguing me.

Don’t have the time (or the brains) to talk about all of those right now so I’ll just let them be for now. However, there’s another one bugging me right now and since I have a minute, help?

I’m not a feminist. I like doors being held open. I like not waiting in lines. I like guys being respectful around girls and treating them like they’re fragile, delicate creatures. Maybe cuz, lets face it – girls are pretty helpless (generally)..

Like, who doesn’t like being treated like a princess am I right?

I’m not the kind of person who would let a guy pay for her all the time, cuz I think everyone should carry their own weight. If I’m low on cash, I would prefer not eating than getting treated. And just like that, I don’t like it when guys expect girls to treat them all the time. Occasionally is cool, obviously. I like making people happy (if, and when I can) – but I don’t like when guys want to be treated all the time.

Is that stupid? Thinking that guys should not do that?

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It’s weird. A friend was once telling me how he doesn’t let girls pay.  And I told him that’s stupid. I went on to say that girls should pay for themselves and guys should pay for themselves. And I still stand by that.

Dilemma: Am I being a hypocrite if I think guys paying is cute and girls paying is just weird?

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